Ek is enkel nooit getroud, ... Ek is 'n vrolike, gesellige, wat verantwoordelik is, open-minded dame wat is altyd gereed om te help. Ek is wat omgee, begrip en getrou. Ek is 'n...
Blaauwberg, Cape Town
I can be funny yet serious.I am caring,kind,gentle and sensual.I am a good listener.I maintain a healthy lifestyle by gyming and eating well.Love walks on beach with my dog.I am looking...
Southern Suburbs, Cape Town
this resonates with me (Snippets from a piece by Kristen Diversi) Don't let yourself be chosen by someone who wants you to be someone or something else. And don't choose someone because...
Paarl, Western Cape
Hi there I stay on a farm in Paarl , I have a 15 year old daughter who is in boarding school , I have been a divorsee and single for far to long , 10 years to be exact. being on a farm I...
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