I am easy going, well learned, witty, elegant & sophisticated, a book worm, intelligent, fun to be with, adventurous, open minded, blessed with a petite body, thought provoking and... as...
I listen well, understand most things, know where I'm going and how to get there and take a path that's most enjoyable, avoiding conflict, rather creating memories. I'm serious about my...
Blaauwberg, Cape Town
Warm, kind, hardworking, gentle, strong beautiful inside and out. .life is too short, but am very sensitive. I lead a healthy lifestyle - I like workouts, jogging, beach walks, cooking,...
Northern Suburbs, Cape Town
I am gentleman, relaxed, romantic, physically and emotionally fit and you will find me to be very easy going, patient and open to try new adventure. I am comfortable in my own way, and...
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Did You Know?
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