very fun person, likes to hang around people and get to know people. very good with kids. My friends describe me as being friendly, helpful and talkative. I love watching movies in an...
Northern Suburbs, Cape Town
I'm a self-motivated and patient individual. I enjoy a challenge and like pushing myself to achieve my goals. I do not look down on others, I treat everyone as equals, the way I want to...
Different, social, love to be spontaneous, like the outdoors, dancing, road trips and singing, family and friends are very important to me, going to church, spending quality time...
I am not going to say anything . When you start to communicate with me then you decide why you have to know me
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