Where Do i Begin, [removed] I'm new to online dating and hope to find the right man of my dream, I'm so loving, caring, passionate and I do have a great sense of humor, I'm open minded...
I enjoy shooting the breeze on any topic. Laugh a lot and don't spend valuable time worrying things I cannot control.
Southern Peninsula, Cape Town
I'm a writer and author, divorced, and looking for this, that and the other thing. Open to longer term possibilities, but only if you enjoy reading, can spell and know the difference...
Upington, Northern Cape
I am a fun, independent woman. Love life and travelling. Just one thing missing... my person. Make memories and live life.
How It Works
- STEP 1: Join today - it's quick, easy and completely FREE to join!
- STEP 2: Complete your profile - tell us about yourself and what you're looking for in a partner.
- STEP 3: Upload a photo - whilst photos are optional, it will dramatically increase the number of responses you receive.
- STEP 4: Try our popular (and very clever) two-way matching system and see who you match with or try any of our many search options to see which one work best for you.
- STEP 5: Log in regularly, be proactive and make the first move by contacting the members you like.
Most importantly, have fun and enjoy the journey in finding your perfect match and hopefully make life-long friends along the way.
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Although we knew each other from a previous stage production where she had been the pianist and I the singer. We had not considered each other a dating prospect at the time, until we noticed each other's profiles on this site and the rest is history as they say!
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... I went on exactly one date with exactly one girl. (Your system matched us at 96%). We have been married for 8 years now, and could not be happier. Whenever we tell this (full) story to people, they are always amazed and "get their faith back in online dating. ;) Believe me, the long story is even more interesting... I guess I cannot thank you enough!
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Did You Know?
You can easily add other members to your favourites list by clicking the 'add to favourites' link on their profile? If you keep interesting profiles in your favourites, you can find them again quickly the next time you visit.
You can block messages from another member who may be bugging you, by simply clicking the 'block him or her' link in their profile?
That you can find people in our database in a number of different ways? Visit the 'Find People' section to read the details and choose the method best suited to your needs.
You can keep an eye on all the newest profiles with photos on the site by visiting the Gallery? The Gallery contains up to 100 of our members' recently uploaded photos, searchable by country and gender so you can get to the good stuff quickly without wading through masses of photo-less profiles.
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